Snuggle Time

 

            In this world of virtual reality, rapid transit, Internet communications and shopping by TV and telephone, we grown-ups can go for days without touching another human soul. Well, maybe not completely - but boy, are there a lot of people out there starved for touch. What's really sad is when they're children.

 

            It's possible that frantic lifestyles, day care, strollers and wind-up swings, high chairs, and fractured families have reduced the amount of touching that the average small child gets in a day. And that's bad.

 

            But what's good is that you can resolve to at least make bedtime a time for touching, warmth and togetherness between you and your infant or toddler. Bedtime storytime is a chance to make reading a top priority for both of you, with your child making a lifelong association between reading and feeling good.

 

            So every night at bedtime, snuggle with your child, and read to him or her. Have a comfy rocker next to the crib, or stretch out together on your child's bed. Put your arm around your child, or sit shoulder to shoulder.

 

            If you notice something in the story that reminds you of your child, touch your child - even the tip of your finger on the tip of her nose will do - and say so.

 

            If something sad happens, turn to your child with a comforting expression, and pat his shoulder or stroke his face, saying you're sure it's going to turn out all right.

 

            If there's an exciting victory or a happy ending to celebrate, exchange a big high-five.

 

            Children are so tactile and sensitive. They need to be close to you, and they need to feel your touch and warmth. With your encouragement, they'll grow up with a heart for books, and a feeling for literature that'll last a lifetime.

 

            By Susan Darst Williams • www.GoBigEd.com • Read to Me 003 • © 2006